Because of that, I decided to post the homework I submitted for our English class, which is all about my beliefs in life. I hope this one helps you out. 😀
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I believe in not comparing yourself with others. Everybody in this world is unique. The world won't be "the world" without you. Your abilities are different from others. There are things where you can't be the best no matter how hard you try (sounds like "nobody's perfect" and "you can't have everything"), and there are things that you can do effortlessly, with poise and passion. Focus on what you can, and embrace your weaknesses and flaws wholeheartedly. You're "flaw(e)some." But remember that not because nobody can be perfect doesn't mean that you won't be exerting the slightest effort on something you do. I got this from my own experiences--no matter how hard I try (example, sports), I never become the best nor the most valuable (player, in that case), but I always keep myself focused and will never stop trying. Never stop trying and aiming.
One of my mantras is, "'Cause the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate." It's the haters' job to hate you. And besides, you can't control everybody. It's not like they're all television sets, waiting to be controlled by remote controls depending on the channel you want to watch. Know if the statements thrown at you are said in a way that they want you to improve, or in a way that is rude and no-respect-at-all. Remember, everybody has just their own way of looking at your mistakes or flaws (or simply ruining your day). But don't shake them off. What if what they're saying is true? Then make their comments as your motivation to become a better version of yourself, for we all know that your greatest competitor is yourself. How can greater good (being a better you) come if evil doesn't first? On the other hand, what if what they're saying is not true? Then prove them that what they think of you is a total lie. (In line with that, I do not believe in "when you're defending yourself, you're guilty." To be honest, that's totally illogical. You're defending yourself to clear up your name, not because you feel guilty.) I think I got this from being a student-leader. Haters will always be there (saying things behind your back), and what you have to do is just to carry out your duty successfully.
Also, I believe in "work hard, party harder" scheme. Never settle for anything good. Make yesterday an inspiration and motivation for today to become your best performance yet (since nothing is constant but change). (As what you've posted on Facebook, you're only as good as your last performance. Was that from Ms. Sara?) Everything will always pay off in the end, just like studying hard and giving your best shot every time you're tasked to do something. If you work really hard, even though the root is bitter, in the long run, the fruit will be sweet (high grades). And the feeling is so overwhelming, knowing that you (start) make (/making) masterpieces.
Focus on people who make you feel valued. Never accept anything less than what you deserve (meaning, reciprocation matters). Would you still befriend somebody who keeps on ignoring you every time you make a move to be closer to him / her (numb and naive)? There would come a time that you just get tired, knowing that you deserve better than that treatment, that there are many more to befriend and build relationships with. (When do you know that it's the right time to stop? I think it's when the disadvantages > advantages. For example, people outside the relationship get hurt as well, or s/he's the cause of you having a low self-esteem, that "Why don't s/he accept me?" or "What's wrong with me?") Don't force yourself in one's life if they don't want you in. (As the popular Filipino saying goes, "Kung ayaw, may dahilan...")
I also believe that forever doesn't exist (#walangforever). People always leave you, when their mission with you is done. Just like what I said, don't force yourself in their lives; let them go out of yours too. (Sometimes you're on top, and sometimes, you're at the bottom. Life is like a wheel.) People that we love leave us behind because there's someone better arriving, who will make us realize our mistakes and will be willing to love us. I also got this from some friendships I lost. As what Seneca said in his work "Epistulae ad Lucilium," "To lose a friend is the greatest of all evils, but endeavour rather to rejoice that you possessed him than to mourn his loss." What you have to do is to savor each moment that you're with that person, and don't fail to make him / her special.
Weird, but I also believe in destiny. There are specific things you can't have a control over (e.g. people's minds and perception). I got this from my friendships and from Ms. Kat. Meeting a specific person is destiny; to make a relationship work, you should fight for it (but know when to stop *refer to the previous paragraphs*). I apply it by letting myself go with the flow (but not totally), and then fight for something I've always been wanting (like good grades).
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